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The Price Of Petrol

by Pete Godfrey · 13 comments

The Price Of Petrol

I was sitting outside Sydney Airport with my wife getting in a last minute cigarette before my flight back home. Yeah I know, filthy habit and it’s gonna kill me, but hey, we all have our vices. Anyway, next to me was my “new friend” Jeff from Tamworth, a guy who up until that point in time was a complete stranger to me.

You see, Jeff immediately introduced himself as soon as my butt hit the bench beside him. He even felt compelled to share with me his thoughts on the world and we exchanged pleasantries as we smoked and waited to go inside… Striking up conversations with complete strangers is something I usually discourage while travelling, but my guard was down, I was tired and he was one of those people who love to have a chat… at it turned out, he gave me a big lesson.

Anyway, it wasn’t long before his talk moved to the price of petrol.

“How much is petrol in Mackay mate?” he asked with genuine interest, as if my answer, the price of petrol in Mackay, may reveal some ultimate meaning to the existence of life on earth. Some wonderful revelation that would revolutionise the human race, cure world hunger, or bring an everlasting world peace.

Okay, I’m exaggerating, but his eagerness indicated a compulsive desire to know. Anyway, I really had to think. Frankly, whether the price of petrol goes up or down, savvy business people are still making money. So I don’t pay much attention to it. But his eyes pleaded for an answer so I had a guess.

“Wow, that’s cheap,” he replied. “I remember last year, petrol went up damn near $2.00 a litre in Tamworth. I tell you,” he continued with a conspiratorial air, leaning into me and indicating for me to do the same with a wag of his finger. “Not too many people went anywhere that year.”

And that was the statement that made me sit bolt upright! That was the statement that made me listen; really listen to this man sitting there beside me. Because man I was gob-smacked! It was a wake-up call! And I was glad I was sitting next to my new friend from Tamworth that’s for sure. I spent another 15 minutes with him. Quizzing him. Probing him. Empathising with him and his lot.

So why did I get so damn interested and excited? Simply this…

As a copywriter, I can’t let myself get too isolated and lose touch with the market I’m writing to.

Recently I took on a client who sells marketing kits to Trades People. Soon, very soon, I’ll be writing to this market. This means, I need to get grounded and think back to my past life when I was on the tools. Just around the corner in my schedule I’m going to have to start thinking like a tradesman.

And that’s real important to my client so he gets maximum results.

Because think about it.

The last two weeks I’ve had a ball hanging out with friends and clients who are true success stories where abundance is the rule of the day. Scarcity is a non-issue… we know we can always get more. But very soon I’ll have to start writing to trades people… I’ve got to start thinking like them, feeling like them, understanding them at a deep emotional level. I have to know what concerns them, what frightens them, how the industry in general is doing and a 101 other things that almost guarantee a winning promotion. So for me, sitting down next to this guy was pure research.

So there’s a great copywriting lesson for you.

You must never isolate yourself from your market. Never be cynical or think you are better. True selling is all about empathy and this empathy clearly shows through in winning copy.

But let’s get away from copy for a minute.

Here’s the BIG wealth lesson for you.

You can’t let your mind be corrupted by all the little grievances we face on a daily basis. When my new mate talked about petrol prices his whole body changed. His face began to grimace, his shoulders sagged, and he had the look of a defeated man.

You see, taking part in the “petrol is expensive” debate around the water-cooler each morning is poisoning your mind to accepting abundance.

Think about it.

How can bitching and moaning ever improve a person’s life?

How?

It can’t!

And it’s the old catch 22 thing in action. The more you bitch and moan about something, the more of it you get.  I believe you attract this, it’s preordained.

Same with abundance.

Start thinking abundantly and start taking the right actions, you’ll start to attract abundance into your life.

Now before you start saying “it’s easy for you Pete”… let me remind you my change in thinking started well before success came my way. My thoughts changed before my circumstances did. There is no other way.

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Kurt February 3, 2010 at 6:54 pm

Hey Pete, great STORY and this is the third lesson I grabbed from the post. The ART of story telling. Whether your intent was to get us to emphasise with our clients. Whether your intent was to have us create visions for ourselves. The real message for me was the message inside the message. The lessons you were helping us with were encapsulated inside a STORY. And for all those people thinking, considering, contemplating on how to write stories then make sure you are Brisbane on the 27th and 28th of February to learn from Pete in his Cash Characters weekend seminar at the Hilton. I’ll be there and wouldn’t miss it, I’m flying back from Bali to attend. Cheers Kurt

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Nobby February 8, 2010 at 9:12 am

You’re right Pete!
We are so focussed on getting everything right and not wanting to know about negatives, that often we tend to ignore those who think like that all the time.
If only we could lift them out of their despair and show them that abundance can be theirs for the taking – if only they would!
But often it’s a batlle to convince them they can move beyond their circumstance, think positively, and achieve.
As long as they remain negative, they will always be a propect for our products!
Because they buy the next shiny penny, but waste it instead of banking it!
Cheers buddy – Nobby

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Louise February 8, 2010 at 10:28 am

Hey Pete,
This is gold.
You gave me the courage and confidence to tell my story to my tribe last month, and I can’t thank you enough. The effect on them was like a lightening bolt. I’ve never had the amount or level of feedback to an article in the past that I’ve written. It really hit a nerve with people.
I wouldn’t have had the guts to do this if it wasn’t for your encouragement through your newsletter.
Thanks again Pete!

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Bill February 8, 2010 at 10:38 am

Great lessons there Pete. When I first met you 3 years ago in the ‘smokers circle’, I’d say i was similar to Jeff. My ‘thing’ was constantly complaining about my crappy job. It only took 2 days with you at your Protege 06 weekend to rid me of that kind of negativity (did wonders for my writing skills too 🙂 – Few months later I left the ‘crappy’ job. See you at Cash Characters mate.

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Dean Kennedy February 8, 2010 at 10:53 am

Lucky you’re not writing for the women’s lingerie market, you might have to start wearing some — just kidding. Great story, you really are the master wizard!

I gotta admit, since being exposed to “Pete’s world”, I just fill up the car and don’t even look at the petrol price. One day the store owner told me he couldn’t change $100 — petrol was at it’s weekly peak and he said his petrol pumps that morning were like a ghost town. The small things that happily don’t occupy my mind anymore!

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Jeff Muir February 8, 2010 at 8:13 pm

Hey what a beautiful reminder of the power of the media to influence our market. I’m with you Pete and I see myself as imune to the media freak shows and disaster around every corner. Thanks to you and your stories, I am telling my own and my clients love it. Regards Jeff

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Susan Connors April 8, 2010 at 9:08 am

Hi Pete 🙂

Its all to easy to lose touch with our target group.

I love to listen to people as I am out and about. When my tribe of four kids
are at school or daycare, I enjoy the luxury of shopping on occasion.

I love to hang out at one of our cafes, smack in the middle of a large shopping cenrte.
Have a really nice coffee and something healthy to eat (most of the time 🙂

People are very interesting subjects. You can learn so much by listening (without being rude or obvioius) and watching without staring. You see things and hear about a whole host of topics.

You get the bunch of negatives turning one little comment into a fully fledged King Kong Dinosaur. How bad this is and so on! I tend to not listen to those types as they
are common – who wants to listen to this stuff when we see it everyday on the news?
Sometimes the points are fair and valid, mostly its a bunch of people whinging about how bad so and so is —- good grief. I mean yes we all bitch at times – sometimes you just don’t want to know about it.

I remember my time as a tradie – an apprentice plumber – loved it. My partner and I built up a good size firm with contracts, I was going to Tafe in Studying – we worked out of Newcastle and travelled to a variety of areas.

To cut a story short, in the mid 1990’s, my partner drive without a license, leaving me with a business, that no one wanted to know about. I only had 1 year to go and no-one would take me on as an apprentice despite the existing contracts that came with me.
In the end, I made sure our clients were not left in the cold, got their jobs finished and I closed shop – going bankrupt as a result. One of many lessons useful for business and personal growth. The bankruptcy was not the business there were not debts attached. A finance company (my bad first place for taking out loan above my means) could not wait for their funds and the last option I had was bankruptcy.

So 15 years later, another world away, I am happier and a lot more wiser.

By keeping an open mind it is amazing the sources of conversations you can have as you did Pete with the man from Tamworh.

All the best

Susan

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John Anderson August 13, 2010 at 7:50 am

Great post Pete.

Ya gotta walk a mile in the person your writing to shoes….if you even want to have a hope of persuading them.

How did you go getting back into the ‘tradey’ mindset for your promotion mate?

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Pete Godfrey August 13, 2010 at 8:06 am

Hey John, I simply thought back to my past life mate because basically, I was a tradie (without the papers) and had worked along side tradies for many years.

In saying that, as copywriters, our biggest asset is empathy… to truly understand who we are writing to is where the money is hidden.

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Dallas Kelso August 13, 2010 at 8:15 am

Hi Pete,

Thanks for the regular updates on Facebook about these everyday stories and reminders for keeping things real. I read them all. So, today, I simply wanted to say Thank You. I appreciate you and your work.

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Pete Godfrey August 13, 2010 at 8:22 am

Thanks Dallas, always good hearing from you… it’s been awhile since we’ve gotten together, The Master Class seems so long ago doesn’t it?

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Dallas Kelso August 13, 2010 at 8:32 am

Hi Pete, thanks mate. Things have changed in a major way since we last caught up. Are you have another class any time in the next 12 months?

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Pete Godfrey August 13, 2010 at 9:00 am

Funny you should ask Dallas. I’ve got something real special coming up in Melbourne on the 2nd and 3rd October called The Boardroom Express… it’s a new express coaching group that runs for 4 weeks designed for copywriters, coaches, consultant, internet/info marketers. I will send you a personal invite today in the mail so you can see exactly what I am doing.

The quality of members joining so far is high. Got some top copywriters (of course), a very savvy entreprenuer who retired early, Glazer/Kennedy Marketer of the Year, and a few other cool folks so you’ll fit right in. And because there are only 18 spots up for grabs, it’s gonna be a very personal and exclusive group.

PS. Your address, still the PO Box in Baulkham Hills?

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