Do you really have to under-go a near-death experience to become a street-savvy Marketer?
January 17, 2008 · Print This Article
Tuesday, 10.38 am, Mackay, Tropical North Queensland, Australia
G’day…
I was talking to a client on the phone a while ago and he said something that took me back a little and got me thinking. And I thought I’d share it with you here because it makes a good point and really rams home what this marketing game is all about.
Anyway, my client simply said: “I like the way you can nail my problems… you’re always thinking outside of the box.”
That’s it, that’s all he said.
So it wasn’t as if it was anything earth shattering. But to me it hit home.
Anyway I started thinking: “Well that’s because I’ve never been inside any box. I’ve always been standing on the outside looking in.” (And for all those Cold Chisel fans out there, what a song that was hey?) Instead, I replied to my client: “Well thanks… but that’s what you’re paying me for.” Or something like that anyway.
My point is; I bring a lot more to the table than just my copywriting skills. (And stay with me…this about YOU not me.) I packed a whole lot of living in my first 35-odd years. (Some would say too much… but hey, I can’t change history.)
I’ve tasted the extremes of emotions from despair to sheer and utter bliss. I tasted the adrenalin rush of fast bikes and have been just a fraction-of-a-second away from certain death on more than one occasion. Crazy but true.
From my wild out of control nomadic years on one side, to the tougher-to-do years when my son was born and I was trying desperately to get it together and stay in one place long enough to get some answers.
I’ve lived through them all. Many of my friends didn’t.
So I can call on many different memories… I can think back and taste many different and conflicting emotions. And all are used as tools in my copy… so I can relate to whomever I’m targeting… so I can empathise and understand their situation, bond with them… and then get in there and stir those emotions up into a fevered pitch of anticipation.
And I don’t think I could bring all that to the table if I was stuck as a teller at your local bank for 20-odd years.
Nah, just wouldn’t be the same. I wouldn’t be the guy I am now… in fact, I wouldn’t be here… it would have killed me… I would have died from boredom no doubt about it.
But here’s the good news.
You don’t have to undergo a few near-death experiences to be a top marketer… so stop panicking will ya?
You do have to be awake though. As marketers, we can’t live our lives in a haze.
You’ve got to see what your market is really about… not how you wished they were, but how they are.
If you target the affluent over 50’s, then you’ve got to know their language, their style and what concerns them on a daily basis.
If your market is the average Joe suburbia, then get out of your comfort zone and take a drive out into the suburbs of any town or city. If you haven’t been out there in a while, I guarantee you’re going to get a wake up call.
While you’re out there, open your eyes. Really see how they live and feel their frustrations.
Because a lot of them ARE frustrated. Real damn frustrated! A lot of them “are living lives of quiet desperation” as Thoreau once said so eloquently.
Because a good proportion of this market have “settled.”
They’ve settled for a lack lustre marriage, a job they hate, and a house that has shackled them to a lifelong mortgage.
They’re walking around in a TV-induced stupor watching life as it happens to them.
And you’ve got to know all this and feel all this to have any hope of selling something to `em.
But get this…
Don’t go feeling all superior here. If they feel you’re talking down to them, if they feel you just don’t understand, they’re not going to give you their money!
So when I’ve got a sales copy problem to solve, I get inside the heads of the market my client is targeting.
I wanna know what they are feeling. Heck I want to feel what they are feeling. I want to experience it for myself, as if it were real, exactly what they are going through.
This is what I do on any copy project I undertake.
And sure it takes a bit out of you… and yes I can write copy cold as if by rote… but the best pieces I’ve written are the ones when I’m so pumped full of emotions that I’m jumping out of my skin.
I pace my desk, scribble a few notes, mutter and moan and pull my hair until I finally sit down and nail the damn thing.
But as my mate and Aussie millionaire-maker Mal Emery says: “Copywriters are a strange mob.”
That maybe true… but one reason for this is that we, as John Carlton says, go deep. We don’t sit around by the side of the pool, wondering if it’s cold, poking a foot in to test the water. Nah… we just dive in at the deep end and pray like hell there’s water in the pool.
Mal said this in one of his recent Weekly Nudges…
“COPYWRITERS AGREE TO THINK ABOUT THAT WHICH THEY WOULD NEVER THINK ABOUT UNLESS YOU WERE PAYING THEM MONEY”
Ah Mal, you’ve got a way with words my friend. But it sums it up totally.
What I’m getting at here is if you want more money and make more sales you’ve got to empathise with and truly understand your market.
Easier said than done…
I see it so many times.
A good product getting pitched in the wrong way. Appealing to every single benefit a person would want except…
The one damn thing that’s on their mind all the time! The one damn thing that they crave!
You see, these marketers missed it; they didn’t know the one thing to lead with… didn’t know the right angle to take. They were guessing, which is a guaranteed way to lose your money.
So writing sales copy or being a great marketer isn’t rocket-science and you don’t need academic qualifications.
Heck, I was on the road when I was fifteen so it doesn’t take education.
But you do have to get educated on your market and this takes a bit of discipline.
Discipline to do your research and find out what your market craves… what they are thinking about… that special thing they want that’s buried beneath a thin veil of sophistication.
Get in there, go deep, stir that emotion and make more money.
About The Author
Pete Godfrey, The Wizard of Words, from rebel without a clue to one of the most in demand and highest paid copywriters and sales strategists in Australasia… all with the power of his emotionally charged words that sell…Discover the "Secret Weapon" to increasing your Sales and Profits www.emotionaladwriting.com











Hi Pete!
Great post, full of fair dinkum wisdom as always!
So true about research. Few copywriters, in my experience, give it the attention it deserves. Amazing the stuff you come across when you bother to do the work. The late, great Gary Halbert was a veritable encyclopedia of knowledge about markets that he was working in.
One quick tip, if I may make so bold (it's implied in your comments). It's amazing what you discover when you ask your market what they think. I'm working on a project at the moment and the client did a very quick survey and it turned up some real nuggets.
Great to see your blog up and running! It's bookmarked in my "Favourites"!
Kevin Francis
G'day Pete, thanks for the great post, I agree with you in regards to research because without it success isn't possible, and if a copywriter or marketer ignores your advice, a lot are "living lives of quiet desperation"!
Exceptionally good advice Pete, the more data you get the easier it is to address the wants and needs of your customers. Great info, keep it up!
I always welcome new experiences, as I know it rounds out my life and give me a different perspective on the world. Inside the box or out of it, you still need to connect and motivate people. Individuals.
Thanks for this great article, you certainly connected with me.
Fiona Fell
Great post Pete. Last time I spoke to you, it was in Perth last year for one of your Cash on Demand workshops (which as great by the way). Come by again this year and I'll shout you a beer again and lunch if you're extra keen
I find it interesting how you've mentioned near-death-experiences and how relevant it is to your success. I've noticed that many successful people are "in-tune" with their death scenario. I think it's because once they face their death, all fear dissipates, hence they take more action (without fear) and succeed.
I've haven't been through a near-death-experience yet but I guess what got me focused on death is a book that I'm sure you've read called "7 Habits of Highly Effective People" by Steven Covey in the chapter "Begining with the end in mind".
Since that day, i've been facinated with death and it's definately had a major influence of the decisions I've made in my businesses. Because no matter what happens, I'll die anyway, so I might as well run like mad towards my goals.
By the way, I still owe you a testimonial.
Keep up the great work!
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